1:10 A.M. — When he and his wife moved from Long Island, N.Y., to San Carlos Park 30 years ago, Walter Hoffmann made a point of inviting as many friends and strangers as he could to his family?s Thanksgiving feasts.

?He?d always tell people, ?Come over. We?ll just put another potato in the pot,?? said Missy Hoffman, the wife of one of Walter Hoffmann?s nine children.

Decades later, Missy and Paul Hoffmann are continuing the family?s oversized Turkey Day tradition. After weeks of planning, the Hoffmanns will host 45 people for Thanksgiving dinner tonight at their two-story San Carlos Park home. The gathering, which will include 14 friends who had nowhere else to go, is one of Southwest Florida?s largest Thanksgiving celebrations.

The feast, which will feature 53 pounds of turkey and 30 pounds of mashed potatoes, will have guests seated at eight tables in the dining and living rooms and outdoor patio.

?It?s a lot of work, but when you?re sitting there for dinner and you look around and see those faces, you know why you did it,? Missy Hoffmann said. ?I feel grateful and blessed to have this amount of family that still wants to be together.?

Missy ? whose husband owns San Carlos Roofing, a business that employs her and other family members ? declined to say how much they spent on the meal.
Although Paul and Missy Hoffmann buy and cook the turkeys, other members of the Hoffmann clan chips in to make some of the side dishes.

One family member brings the broccoli cheese casserole, another brings 10 pounds of mashed potatoes, another brings desserts and so on.

?It?s real organized,? said Mario Lopez, a family friend who will bring his wife, two sons (ages 24 and 19) and 10-year-old daughter. ?The Hoffmanns have been doing this for so long they have it down pat.?

Missy said she tries to purchase meal items a little at a time over a span of three weeks so it?s not a huge financial hit.

?Three weeks ago, I saw that green beans were on sale so I bought four cans,? Missy Hoffmann said. ?And I know I?m going to need lots of flour and butter, so I have 10 pounds of butter in my refrigerator right now.?

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The home changes

A large part of the feast?s preparations involves fixing up the family?s two-story home. In order to accommodate 45 chairs and eight tables, the Hoffmanns have to move almost all of the family?s furniture outside.

Today, you?ll find the family?s two living room couches, a recliner chair, a coffee table and an exercise bike on their porch.

?It?s only about a 1,000-square-foot home, so we?re used to squeezing together,? said Keri Harty, Missy Hoffmann?s niece. ?Missy gets a bunch of folding tables, and she has them everywhere.?

Missy likes to say that her Thanksgiving Day feast is held throughout her home.

Guests will be seated at tables in the dining and living rooms and patio. The Hoffmanns plan to leave the living room?s sliding glass doors open so guests outside can be a part of the dinner discussion.

Despite the tight quarters, Harty said her family has few quarrels on Thanksgiving. She said her extended family, almost all of which lives in Lee County, has an unspoken rule not to fight.

?We have everything in our family from super liberal Democrats to super conservative Republicans, and it can get quite heated at some points, but we don?t fight,? Harty said. ?If someone makes you upset, you just walk away, and then we come back and we?re together again.?

Inviting others

Lopez, who has been attending the Hoffmanns? Thanksgiving feasts since 1997, marvels at how well the family interacts and how it continually opens its door to strangers.

Lopez said the Hoffmanns ?adopted? him and his family 13 years ago.

?We moved here from Long Island because my wife got a job down here and we didn?t have any family here so they just adopted us,? Lopez said with a laugh. ?We met through a baseball team that had one of my sons and one of their sons.?

Lopez said the Hoffmanns invite his family for every birthday or holiday celebration, and he rarely turns them down.

?It?s great to have family, especially at this time of year,? Lopez said. ?I came from a big family in Long Island and it?s great to have a big family here in Florida.

?The Hoffmanns are very special people.?

Crowd to converge at Lee County home

9:34 A.M. — WASHINGTON ? President Barack Obama says the political cost of overhauling the health care system turned out to be higher than he had expected. And he admits that he gets discouraged at times when dealing with the economy.

In an interview airing Sunday night on CBS’ “60 Minutes,” Obama said the health care system itself is huge and complicated and that changing it eluded previous presidents because it was so difficult.

“I made the decision to go ahead and do it, and it proved as costly politically as we expected ? probably actually a little more costly than we expected, politically,” he said.

Obama said he thought that he would find common ground with Republicans by advancing health care proposals that had been introduced by Republican administrations as well as potential presidential candidate Mitt Romney when he was governor of Massachusetts.

“I couldn’t get the kind of cooperation from Republicans that I had hoped for,” he said. “And that was costly, partly because it created the kind of partisanship and bickering that really turn people off.”

Obama said the danger of a second major recession is “much reduced” and a great depression is not on the horizon. Still a danger, he said, is the nation being “stuck in a new normal where unemployment rates stay high.”

“I do get discouraged. I mean, there are times where I thought the economy would had gotten better by now,” he said. “One of the things I think you understand as president is you’re held responsible for everything. But you don’t always have control of everything, especially an economy this big.”

However, Obama sounded optimistic about the nation’s economic future.

“I am constantly reminded that we have been through worse times than these, and we’ve always come out on top,” he said. “And I’m positive that the same thing is going to happen this time.”

Obama said his two years as president haven’t changed his ideals.

“But I think that in terms of how I operated on a day-to-day basis, when you’ve got a series of choices to make ? I think that there are times where we said let’s just get it done instead of worrying about how we’re getting it done,” he said. “And I think that’s a problem. I’m paying a political price for that.”

The “60 Minutes” interview was taped at the White House on Thursday, before Obama left for a four-nation tour of Asia.

Obama surprised by political cost of health law

Tina Haisman needed to stand out.

Her family’s home at 11471 Persimmon Court had been on the market for three months and had been shown to about 10 prospective buyers with little fanfare.

“We’ve had people come to look at our house two and three and four times and tell us they loved it but they would go back to Canada or something and say ‘Oh, we’ll be back in a month,’ ” Haisman said.

Haisman, 37, her husband Paul and their two young children moved to the Chicago area for Paul’s information technology job. The family became frustrated with the failed attempts to sell their 2,280-square foot, four-bedroom home, which is located in Gateway and listed for sale at $269,900.

“The problem is there are so many homes,” Haisman said. “People have plenty of time to search and that sense of urgency that used to be there when you were shopping for a home – that you better make a bid on it if you want it or you’ll lose it – that sense of urgency is not there.”

So Haisman, owner of Tina Haisman Public Relations, did what any PR pro would do. She began strategizing ways to draw attention to the 19-year-old dwelling.

To help them come up with a marketing idea, Haisman and her husband decided to first create a list of what they liked about their home – a brainstorming technique some real estate agents suggest to sellers prior to showing a property.

Paul typed up his ideas and e-mailed his version of the list to his wife. When she read his top 10 selling points, Haisman completely disagreed with her husband on the home’s best features.

“As I was reading it I thought, ‘Oh my gosh. I would change half the things on here.’ It was not what I thought at all,” she said.

The couple realized how differently men and women sometimes view a home’s attributes and decided to each create their own top 10 list. Whereas stellar landscaping, a split floor plan and vaulted ceilings made the cut for Haisman, her husband focused on technical aspects such as the new roof, cable wiring and hurricane panels.

“My top 10 list is more about the beauty of the home,” Haisman said. “My husband’s list is more of the functional, practical, manly man’s list. I don’t think a woman would care as much that you get free hot water from the air conditioning as a guy would.”

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The real estate agent the Haismans were working with at the time posted their dueling top 10 lists to their home listing on Realtor.com. The agent created a flier about the husband and wife’s selling points for the home and e-mailed it to agents on the Lee County Multiple Listing Service. Several local agents applauded the creativity and asked if they could use the husband-wife list idea with their clients.

Haisman then sent press releases to news outlets near Boston, Minneapolis, Detroit, Chicago and Columbus, Ohio – areas traditionally home to Southwest Florida snowbirds.

The day she sent the release, 30 people viewed Haisman’s home listing on Realtor.com. More than 70 people interacted with the media release – meaning they saved it to their computers, printed it or clicked on links within it. It received approximately 40,000 headline impressions, or the number of times people viewed pages that included the headline for the release.

In addition, Haisman – who was reading Daniel Pink’s “A Whole New Mind” at the time, which discusses, among other things, the importance of storytelling in business and marketing – created a blog in an attempt to create a personality for the home she and her family lived in for nine years. On her blog, Haisman posted home photos and has written about everything from winds the home withstood during hurricanes Charley and Wilma to the fun of neighborhood block parties on Persimmon Court.

“I wanted to tell the stories so maybe people can envision their family living there and creating their own memories,” she said.

The mother and public relations professional tweets about her home and blog, posts information about it on Facebook and has asked some friends to post the information on their Facebook pages as well.

Marla Martin, spokeswoman for the Florida Association of Realtors, called the Haisman top 10 lists “very creative” and she said she hadn’t heard of that tactic before. Still, Martin said she is not surprised by the family’s marketing efforts.

“During the boom years, you almost didn’t have to do anything because the homes were moving so fast,” she said. “Now, our members report lots of creative things for sellers.”

Those efforts include holding signs along roadways to promote open houses and an increased use of social media sites and YouTube videos to advertise homes on the market. Sunni Hammermeister of Sellstate Realty Systems Network, who signed on as agent for the Haismans last week, has even seen people offer cars and boats with the sale of their home.

As they continue to aggressively market the home on Persimmon Court, Hammermeister said it has a good chance of finding the right buyer. Haisman, who plans to create a second media release soon, also remains optimistic.

“Hopefully, these things will help us stand out,” she said of her PR efforts. “We’re trying to be positive in this economy and proactive and take action instead of just complaining about how horrible things are.”

His and hers lists help market couple’s home

Collier County residents and visitors interested in donating blood in remembrance of the Sept. 11 terrorist attacks can do so Saturday at the Waterside Shops from 9 a.m. to 4 p.m.

The Community Blood Center blood mobile will be on site near the Barnes and Noble book store.

Successful donors will receive a $10 gas card or specialty gift card while supplies last. Participants will be automatically eligible for the chance to win a summer grand prize drawing for a Lovers Key Staycation package for two. The drawing will be Oct. 2.

In years past, when the Sept. 11 memorial blood drive has been held at Waterside, turnout usually has been 125 donors or more.

Immediately following the 2001 terrorist attacks, hundreds of people from throughout Collier turned out at the Community Blood Center’s headquarters at the time, at the former Grand Central Station near downtown Naples, to donate blood to help save the lives of those injured in the attacks.

Within hours of the attacks, donors saw the wait grow to several hours so volunteers and staff with the American Red Cross helped triage the donors, and local restaurants brought food and beverages for the staff and donors. The blood center records show that 1,100 people registered to donate blood on the day of the attacks and on the two days that followed. A total of 865 pints of blood were collected.

For more information about Saturday’s blood drive, call the center at 436-5455.

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To report a crime or suspicious activity in your neighborhood, call the Naples Police and Fire Department at 213-4844, the Collier County Sheriff’s Office at 774-4434, the Lee County Sheriff’s Office 239-477-1000 or the Marco Island Police Department at 389-5050.

Man injured in crash as Collier sheriff’s deputies pursue him

Cape Coral man arrested, charged with lewd and lascivious battery

Battery arrests

? Linda Marlene Long, 51, of the 1200 of Rordon Drive, Naples, was arrested by Collier County Sheriff deputies at the 4600 block of Alhambra circle. She was charged with chasing her now separated husband outside in the backyard, tugging his shirt and slapping him. James Long, the husband, said she has come over on multiple occasions and inflicted verbal and/or physical abuse regarding division of their property, the reports said.

? Roger Lee Brown, 51, of the 100 block of East Court., Goodland, was arrested by Collier deputies Saturday at the 100 block of East Court. He was charged with cornering his wife by the neck in a threatening manner, reports said.

? Jesus Rios Martinez, 19, of the 1300 block of Roberts Road, Immokalee, was arrested by Collier deputies Saturday at the 1300 block of Roberts Road. He was charged with throwing items at his girlfriend and causing injury, reports said.

DUI arrests

? Arthur Feria, 34, of the f the 3300- block of 29th Avenue Northeast, Naples, was arrested by Florida Highway Patrol on Saturday at Immokalee Road and U.S. 41.

? Kathleen Cinquegrana, 59 of North Easton, Mass., was arrested by Collier deputies along U.S. 41 near 107th Avenue early Sunday.

? Walter Davis Stephens III, 39, of the 17500 block of Harbour Point Drive, Fort Myers was arrested by Collier deputies Saturday on U.S. 41 near the 10500 block.

? Robert Lynn Withers, 52, of the 9600 block of Victoria Lane, Naples, was arrested by Collier County Sheriff deputies Saturday at Airport-Pulling Road and U.S. 41. At the time of the arrest, according to reports, Withers was physically resisting arrest and required two deputies to place into deputies vehicle.

? Miguel Felipe Baltazar, 43 of the 200 block of Triple C Run, Felda, was arrested by Collier deputies Saturday at U.S. 41 and Glades Avenue. He was observed driving on the center line of U.S. 41 and at one point, his vehicle’s left wheels were driving on the shoulder, reports said. While deputies conducted the sobriety test, he was observed to have urinated on himself, reports said.

Police Beat is compiled and written by the Naples Daily News staff/ contributors from oral and written reports by Naples police, Collier Sheriff‘s Office, Lee County Sheriff’s Office, Marco police and other agencies. Arrests indicate suspicion of crime, not guilt.

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Police beat: Aug. 15, 2010

Nancy Smith, founder of the Shy Wolf Sanctuary, gives a kiss to Chocowa, a gray wolf who lives at the sanctuary, a two and a half acre piece of land off of White Boulevard. Former sanctuary volunteer Susan Cabot Rather died and left $120,000 to the sanctuary. Sanctuary board of directors used the money in April to purchase 20-acres of land on Dove Tree Street in the Golden Gate Estates to be the future site of the sanctuary.

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Nancy Smith, founder of the Shy Wolf Sanctuary, gives a kiss to Chocowa, a gray wolf who lives at the sanctuary, a two and a half acre piece of land off of White Boulevard. Former sanctuary volunteer Susan Cabot Rather died and left $120,000 to the sanctuary. Sanctuary board of directors used the money in April to purchase 20-acres of land on Dove Tree Street in the Golden Gate Estates to be the future site of the sanctuary.

Shy Wolf Sanctuary

1161 27th Street SW, Naples

For more information or to become a supporter of the Shy Wolf Sanctuary, call 455-1698 or see the website www.shywolfsanctuary.com.


The volunteers at Shy Wolf Sanctuary spend a lot of time these days planning. Planning and hoping that the community which has long supported them will continue to come to the aid of nearly 60 animals in their care.

Plans are underway to relocate most of the sanctuary from its current, cramped 21/2-acre quarters to a new 20-acre property the sanctuary was recently able to obtain. Susan Cabot Rather bequeathed the funds for the Sanctuary to purchase the new land, which will be named in memory of her. The full name will be the Shy Wolf Sanctuary Education and Experience Center in Memory of Susan Cabot Rather.

But first, the board of directors must obtain the funding required to make the move.

The Shy Wolf Sanctuary rescues, houses and cares for wolves, wolf-dog hybrids, panthers and a variety of other unwanted animals neglected or abandoned by previous owners. Its purpose is to provide a place for these animals to live out the rest of their often difficult lives. There are about 40 volunteers — and no paid employees — at Shy Wolf.

“As long as they have a good quality of life, we’ll take care of them,” said Mark Scarola, a volunteer and member of the board of directors. “We’re the last resort for these incredible animals who would otherwise be put down.”

The cost of rescue services, vet bills, and basic sanctuary upkeep is staggering, costing more than $108,000 annually. One of the wolves named Timka came to the rescue from west of Gainesville. She had been used for breeding and left to die on an 8-by-10 foot slab of concrete. It took Shy Wolf volunteers three weeks to encourage Timka to stand on her own.

When the Sanctuary took in two wolf pups and Timka came to life. The pups gave Timka the purpose she needed to live.

Another wolf in the Sanctuary’s care named Julie had been purchased for use in a television show. The man who purchased Julie tried to sell her. When he couldn’t make money on Julie, he dumped her at a Brooksville rescue shelter that subsequently went out of business. Shy Wolf Sanctuary stepped in to rescue Julie, who is slowly recovering from her ordeal.

“Whatever happened to Julie scared her half to death and it was so deeply embedded in her psyche, and all this time, she has not been able to be anywhere near a man,” said Shy Wolf Sanctuary board president Nancy Smith.

“We believe she was whipped or yanked or possibly beaten but she is making great strides to be rehabilitated.”

The wolves live securely in enclosures with 8-foot fences and dig wire, which prevents them from tunneling out. Five foxes, five Florida panthers, six prairie dogs, a few tortoises and two rabbits also share space at the Sanctuary. These panthers were also born and raised in captivity, without learning hunting or protection skills, so they, too, cannot survive on their own in the wild.

Like wolves, big cats appear to have a close connection to nature.

“Kiowa, one of the big cats at the Sanctuary, reacted to Hurricane Charlie before it hit,” said Smith. “She began pacing frantically and agitated, like she was trying to get away from something and then suddenly, she stopped pacing.” Smith said she knew the storm wasn’t going to hit Naples when Kiowa suddenly lay down and became instantly relaxed.

The wolves, however, are the main focus of the shelter’s care. Some of them are nearing the end of their lives; others are recovering from horrific treatment at the hands of humans. The Sanctuary is also caring for several wolf puppies rescued from an accidental breeding incident in the Florida Panhandle.

“The owner separated the litter of nine pups from their mother too soon, which suppressed their immune system development and we took in four of those puppies,” said Smith. “Vet bills for the pups have exceeded $7,500 so far, and that’s because they require such extensive care.” Treatment for the pups has included blood transfusions, medication, and extended stays at the emergency vet clinic.

The addition of the pups to the Sanctuary brings the number of wolves there to 36. For the new facility the Sanctuary will need to raise $2 million in donations and in-kind services.

“In addition to monetary contributions, we would love to receive in-kind donations to sponsor various projects that will be required to make the move a reality,” said Scarola. “We’re asking businesses who can help to please consider donating their services for things required to run the facility.”

Some of those needs include contracting services that would help the Sanctuary navigate the process of working with the county for permitting purposes, fencing, staff housing, infrastructure improvements, labor for building enclosures and installing other building structures, electrical contracting and veterinary services. The list goes on.

Scarola says the Sanctuary will also need kitchen equipment, including freezers and refrigerators. The volunteers feed the animals four times a week, a massive undertaking that requires hours of messy manual labor.

Many of the volunteers, including Smith, must regularly cut up dozens of large containers of raw chicken and meat to prepare the more than 3,000 pounds of meat per month the animals consume. That does not include the greens volunteers procure for the turtles and other animals who require roughage in their diets.

Property maintenance is also a considerable expense for the sanctuary.

Something as simple as a donation of a lawn mower makes a big difference in the operating budget, Scarola says. He hopes someone will come forward to donate a new workshop, such as a prefab structure at the new property to store equipment and supplies. Partners and donors will be able to sponsor enclosures and individual wolves among other opportunities to give. The sanctuary is a 501(c)3 organization.

Smith says she hopes that, with help from local universities and contractors, the new Shy Wolf facility can be entirely green. Solar power is an option the group is exploring.

The move cannot come fast enough for the staff and animals that have outgrown the current space. The new facility will enable the Sanctuary to rescue more unwanted animals and increase the common space, among other needs.

With the sheer number of volunteer hours and the cost to run the sanctuary, it’s tempting to ask a question that ruffles feathers among animal lovers: Is all of this worth it to save wolves?

Smith has an answer.

“Responsibility means the ability to respond, and when we acquire an animal, we’re supposed to be making a promise to care for that animal until the end of its life,” she said.

Too often, people who buy exotic animals for pets do not keep that promise, Smith continued. Irresponsible breeders sell wild animals that should never become pets. Buyers ignorant of the work required to care for these animals eventually abandon or mistreat them.

Places like Shy Wolf Sanctuary provide the chain of commitment that should exist. Smith says the Sanctuary’s mission is to provide a home for those animals that have been treated like garbage. Volunteers are quick to point out that animals don’t come as the “good” or “bad” creatures that fairy tales make them out to be.

“Wolves have gotten a bad rap in literature — Three Little Pigs and Red Riding Hood stories — but they really are amazing and have this strong connection with nature,” said Tom Hornyal, a recent volunteer at the sanctuary. “I am astonished at how much this organization can accomplish with so few people – you really can make an immediate impact.”

Smith imparted some of her hard-earned wisdom to her volunteers as they prepared the rest of the feed on this particular day.

“I do not want this message of saving these animals to die with me,” said Smith, who is also a great grandmother. “If just one person gets it and keeps the dream alive, we’ll have done our job.”

As if on cue, just as Smith completed cutting up her last bucket of raw chicken, one of the wolves began to howl. One by one the rest of the wolves joined in for a haunting chorus of baying as if they too, know a change is coming.

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PHOTOS: Shy Wolf Sanctuary hopes to turn new 20-acre site into better home for its animals in need